Saturday, August 28

1st post in Hk

Finally, it has been a week I stay in this new land, HONG KONG.

from the 1st step I put onto this land, there are five 'uniqueness' that I found them interesting.

1st of all, I see all Chinese faces in da airport. That is quite rare in MAS as most of da airport staff in MAS are non-Chinese.

Secondly, a fact that can never be denied, HONG KONG ppl can walk indeed fast. Their speed is higher than you can expect, and initially, I was always worrying that I am blocking da walk way with my rather slow footsteps. Fortunately, after a few days of adaption, I speed up too, from a walking distance of 30 mins at 1st to 15 mins now, when I walk from student hall to university.

Da third one is da reason to explain why HONG KONG ppl walk fast, which is, everything here is waking, walking and walking. Wherever you go, you walk, take MTR, walk, change station, walk and walk, and finally reach your destination, so yea.

ok, da forth one is you can rarely find cars on da road, except public transports. da most nmber is cab, followed by different kinds of buses.

And da last incident is, weather here is extreme and alter fast. rain comes for about 15 mins, stop and become sunny again. This is kind of weird.

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Okay, let's talk about my life.
University is now so far so good.
building, facilities, food are all impressive and convenient.
and these few days, I walked around with friends, went some places, and bought a number of stuff.
stuff here are relatively cheap, namely electrical appliances, daily necessities, and clothes especially.
so, I am adapting well in time being,
lessons commence on 1st of Sept, hopefully everything goes smoothly.


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I miss my family, I miss my boy, I miss my friends.
I need to hold my tears, when I skype with my parents..
it is like, I can be teary at anytime, especially when I am walking,
da streets and places, where my mum and I went when she was still with me here da very 1st three days.

I didnt have a long chat with my boy since i came here.
he is busy, juggling his time between his competition and exam preparation.
but I did not blame for anything, cause, I know, da life he in, is tougher than mine,
we are striving life hardly, complete task to da perfect extent, and look forward for da day we meet each other.

I love you all.

Thursday, August 19

am going to leave in few hours time..
have totally no idea why,
I am unexpectedly calm.CALM.
and I am indeed freak of, answering people call, listening to their talk,
they make my tears spilts like shit..

anyway, will be back soon, to my blog,
when I land safely in another land..

once again, so much grateful and appreciation,
to all da sms text or facebook wall message..
muacks! =)

it noted 19th.aug































before I leave for HK..



pictures with stories behind..
thank you, thank you for all wishes..
I want to smile! no sadness! =)





da last night..
how is it?
how should you feel?
heavy-hearted? depressed? nervous?
it is, beyond words can explain precisely..
my nose is sour, my eyes are warm, my body is still..
take care, everyone..

SUETMUN, I was touched by da call..
keep your tears,
I prefer to see and hear your laughter..
take care, deal?
and you will be remembered, eternally..

BOY, thank you for being tolerate and understanding..
your existence, your support,
is over every circumstance coming against me..

Wednesday, August 18

it noted 18th.aug

不懂怎么了,
这几天,不爱说话,不爱应酬,
也不喜欢见到人。

只是想,一个人,静静地,
呆在客厅,躲在房间,窝在睡床。
追追戏剧,看看书,听听歌,收收东西,写写字,上上网,就够了。

没有感觉。



开始觉得害怕了。

Monday, August 16

it noted 16th.aug

LOL da dinner beansprout chicken mee made my tummy floated to da extent of bursting..haha..
so satisfying!

dad bought a lappy and he is exploring it now..
XIANG presented me a small blue fish bone key chain..
mum brought me to purchase a gold key pendant, though I have not reach da legal age of 21, she is freaking of da sudden increment of gold value in next year CNY..

that's called a day..
counting down to da date where I heading to my uni..

oh ya, I had a very nice chat with my two gossip-mates!!!
though three of us are in different countries,
da topics do not alter and we enjoyed tremendously!
LOL, cause we chat about everything, specifically, gossips..
GAMBATEH, three of us, da self-declared SEX & THE CITY 3!
=)











friends you didn't keep in touch very often,
but each other,
deserve a unique position in hearts..
wish da bond remain stern,
when time flies, when we age..
da true friends..

Sunday, August 15

today noted 14th.aug, 15th.aug

da Sat that I am quite waiting for it..
an early birthday celebration for XIANG..
a family day too..
without obvious reason, I appreciate it, a lot..
went a small shopping at JJ..
and bought my IPOD SHUFFLES..
my mini green..
you will be da one that shoulder da onus, offering company to me when I am abroad..
supper at Stadium..
grab da opportunity to tuck in as much food as I can..

a Sunday,
had my last Sunday breakfast with family..
still da same, it is etched in my heart, brought to everywhere I stay..
then, as a promise, had lunch at SUSHI KING with XIANG and bought him a sling beg..

that's all for my last weekend here..
it is bored, lifeless, but,
important and remarkable..



哈!再见了,终于。
舍得?好不舍得。
紧张?当然有。
兴奋?微微的。
害怕?好多。
加油,你可以的。

Friday, August 13

today noted 13th.aug

13th of August, a Friday, A BLACK FRIDAY..
regardless you are superstitious or not,
unfortunate things tend to occur in this so called black friday..

today was a packed day for me..
went to pay a visit to my secondary school teachers in AMC..
they are glad, happy, from da smiles and laughter..
it is comprehensible..
da biggest pay back of a teacher is when he/she know that students are succeeding in a right path, at da same time, they still keep their teacher in mind..
teachers who do best in their onus, who care and really pay effort,
I remember you all, my teachers, from primary to sixth form..

a lunch with CINDY, HUAY, MIN, GANG AND YANYU..
da feeling is indescribable..
and I know it is not a great place here to express,
but, every thought about it, I save it securely in my heart, I appreciate..
this is enough -- THANK YOU.

black friday, can you never imply on me when da clock was one more hour to strike 12?
da night, was unpleasant..
da problem, was unsolved..
da knot, was still there..
no one is willing to take da first move, to untie it..
it supposed to be a great day, with da great memorable 13th, isn't it so?




没有解不开的误会,只有不敢面对的人。
我相信了。
可是,在你的身上,
我退缩了,我累了。

Tuesday, August 10

today noted 10th.aug

today date : 10th AUG..
10 more days, I am going to step away from this lovely place,
spread my steps in a totally strange land,
where seemingly a fun place for most people..

lately, many of them asked,
how is your feeling right now?
I would frequently tell them..
no idea, time is spinning fast..
it does not allow any opportunity for me to have any feeling, neither unease nor excited..

they asked,
is everything prepared?
I tell them,
ya stuff and luggage are done..
but, I am not mentally prepared enough..

thank you to my family,
especially da two parents..
I saw and I feel,
your care and love..
most of da dinner, you will ask for what food I prefer..
you tailor a clothe for me..
you busy assisting me in all da preparation works,
like buying bus ticket, getting medicine, fetching me here and there just to get da things I need in HK, bring me down to KL for da sharing talk, etc..
in a nut shell,
my preparation would not be that light and easy without da presence of you both,
my dear lovely dad and mum..

my boy, thanks with my unconditional love..
everything you did, I feel it, I am touched..
though you have got countless orientation activities and outings in SG,
you still willing to spare your time to stay with me,
webcam and chat with me..
I am demanding,
but you didn't care, you didn't blame..
you forgive my every slip, my every unreasonable troublesome acts..
boy, we had gone through da 1st few weeks of your new life in SG..
I have faith that we will conquer da same thing when I move to HK..
Our destination, is not da recentness, is da future =)




好想,
没有遗憾地离开,
那个遗憾,在心里,
一直都在。

Sunday, August 8

it noted 8th.aug

it was a sunday..
a sunday which to has breakfast together with family..
went to 高记 situated at old town..
to have brunch..

met with HUISHI and YANYU at JJ..
it was fun when i think of we actually stayed at FOOD & TEA for nearly 4 hours..
haha..
girls talk, chat on everything..
hope to meet you all up again in CNY next year..

a rather short post today..
tomorrow is monday, again..
i abhor monday..



sometime, talk to people from different background and lifestyle,
did aspire my mind and perception..
all oil, my friends around me..

it noted 7th.aug - da gatheing

it is now ten to one and i want to post on da gathering at my place just now..
it was a steamboat and bbq 2 in 1 gathering..
invited all aunts, uncles, cousins, both paternal and maternal, mum's boss and family..
successful gathering I would call that,
with all thorough preparation by my dad and mum..
so we are fortunate, to have great food, better than those served outside..


it is going to start soon


da bbq area

food & drinks





bbq stove


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05


06 - supper of da night

and now, let da pictures talk about da people and, JIWAWA =)







personally like this picture, we are looking good =P

guys and dota, an unchangeable match.



he promised his flesh will turn into muscle when I graduate.LOL.


candid shot of I,


of my elder bro,


of my younger bro.

laugh with ease,

is not hard =D

Friday, August 6

it noted 6th.aug

went for a sharing talk tonight..
by 冯以量,
titled 陪你到最后,给悲伤一个位置。

he is a Malaysian, and he is now working in Singapore..
he writes too..I purchased some of his books before..
his job is mainly on hospice care/terminal care in a specialised hospital,
a hospital where all patients are certified with incurable disease, most particularly, cancer..
so, he will play da role as a counsellor, talk and advise,
never neglect da most crucial responsibility that he shoulder, LISTEN..
he listens to da patients, listens to those whose family member is facing death..
need not to express more, it is no doubt a meaningful job, right?

however, he did, had a tough life experience..
his mum and dad passed away when he was aged 14 and 18 respectively..
he attempted suicide for thrice..
he went through all sorts of obstacles,
to make him stand firm, turn to a better life..
that explains why he can now face and talk about death fearlessly..
in his perception, death, is nothing to be fear of..
unless, you make it a good death..
as he keep mentioning, 善终..

he shared four real stories with us today..
which are all regard to his patients,
on how his assist them,
how he fulfilled their last wish,
how he accomplished da wish of a 10-year-old daughter who gapes after a first and last birthday celebration with her father who got liver cancer..
how he mended back da bond between da rebellions son and his rectum-cancerous mother..
how he helped a severely sick husband to show his remorse to his wife and finally they had a wedding again with a newly bought diamond ring, ROLEX watch and a bouquet of pretty red rose..
how he observed a husband to commemorate his wife on her memorial day of her death, by organising a grand dinner and all da relatives and friends are invited..

after all, da main purpose of this sharing is, appreciation..
appreciate everyone around you while you can,
in stead of merely think of their bad characteristics,
try to take some moments,
look through their existence, their care, their love,
which are far more important to be appreciated.. =)





when you are at da last few moments of your life,
da person who you want to meet most,
is da one,
you love most, at da same time, you hate most,
yet, i call da person, my another half..