do you have a friend who is changing, and it's got you feeling blue?
before you get too down and start to questioning what's happening, consider this :
EVERYTHING IS CONSTANTLY CHANGING
leaves fall from tree and grow back again,
weather storms come and go,
hair keep growing no matter how many times it's cut,
da ocean tide goes in and out...
it is just a part of nature.
anything can spur change in a friend.
after all.
knowing that change is normal and doesn't necessarily have to be bad.
unless she is changing for da worst and you are concerned about her well being, give her da space she needs to explore these new interests.
take care of yourself and acknowledge that you are changing even as you feel that.
everything we learn, take in and process changes who we are and how we view da world.
accept da changes
in everyone
noone wanting to be da background
to be forgotten, neglected
noone wanting to put up with emotional words
to stand hatred face, perfunctory response
-
have been guilty
of giving too much power to someone
and then
feeling helpless and unable to get it back
-
we feel da situation
but why do we let her control da way we are acting and thinking
because
we give our power to people we think they are charismatic
one smile from them can easily make us feel like a million bucks
so we do whatever it takes
to keep those smiles coming
=)
is it too slow
to realise
all da falls AND falsehoods
sorry does not exist
it is merely
da matter of
learning to love and to be loved
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